人教新目标英语初三unit11 讲义及练习

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1. It is foolish___________ her to make ___________many careless mistakes in this English exam.

A. for; so       B. of; such      C. for; such     D. of ;so

2. It's___________ for us___________ polite in class .

A. interesting; to become B. important; toC. good; to          D. necessary; to be

3. It is very important___________ us___________ English every day.

A. to; to read      B. for; to readC. for; reading     D. to; reading

4. It's very kind___________ you to help me with my English. It is hard___________ me to learn it well.

A. for; for      B. for; of       C. of; of        D. of; for

5. It was___________ of me to leave the door open last night .

A. curious        B. weak          C. careless       D. careful

6. How___________ it is of you to work out the difficult problem!

  A. clever         B. correct        C. wrong         D. right

7. It is___________ of our teacher to help us with our study .

  A. shy          B. wise          C. modest   D. kind

8. How___________ you are to give your seat to me!

A. active         B. patient        C. stubborn      D. nice

9. It is___________ of him to play football in the street .  

A. dangerous     B. active         C. wrong         D. correct

10. It’s not polite to point __________ a person.

A. to                B. out              C. at                   D. on



1. Moscow is the __________ (首都) of Russia.

2. I will make an __________ (努力) to stop smoking.

3. I __________ (重视) your opinion and I care about our relationship.

4. I don’t like to talk with hime, he has a terrible __________ (礼仪).

5. The __________(黑板) is in front of the classroom.

6. They are sure to get m         to hear the news. Itis terrible news.

7. The mother told her child to b          himself.

8. I was writing a letter when I heard a k          at the door.

9. In Japan, people b          instead of shaking hands.

10. Summer is a rainy s         in china.



二  Presentation

1. But that music makes me sleepy.但是那种音乐会使我发困。

² make用作及物动词，意为“使；让”，在主动语态中其后要跟省略to的不定式作宾语补足语，而在被动语态中，to不能省去。如：

Don't make the baby cry anymore.

She was made to wait for over an hour.

² 英语中，类似于make这种用法的动词还有let, have, hear, see, watch, notice, feel等。如：

I saw him put the key into the keyhole, turn it and open the door.

She was seen to go into the classroom.

² make用作及物动词，后接复合宾语，表示“使……成为……；使成为……”时，通常由形容词、名词、介词短语充当宾语补足语。如：

Loud music makes me uncomfortable.

The teacher tried his best to make himself a good friend of his pupils.



1) Jack is very funny. He always makes us_____.

    A. laugh              B. laughing              C. to laugh             D. laughs

2) The rainy days ______ me sad and angry.

A. make              B. makes                C. to make             D. making

3) The movie made ______ feel excited.

A. his               B. him                  C. himself              D. he

2. Waiting for Army drove Tina mad. 等待艾米这件事使我疯狂。

² waiting for Arm 是一个动名词短语结构，动名词做主语时，谓语动词要用第三人称单数形式。如：sleeping is necessary.

² 动名词作主语一般情况下可以用动词不定式来替换，不过此时一般用it作形式主语，而把真正的主语放在句子后面，因此上句就可以改写成：It’s necessary to sleep.

² Drive在这个句子中作动词，意思是“迫使、驱使”，“drive+宾语+形容词”结构常常用来表达不好的事情，形容词是句子的宾语补足语，例：You drive me mad when you say that.

² Drive也可以用动词不定式做宾语补足语，表示迫使某人作出极端的事情。如：He drove her to admit it.

1) It is better to stay home than ______ out.

A. to go             B. going              C. go               D. gone

2) ______ is a good form of exercise for both young and old.

A. The walk         B. Walking            C. To walk      D. Walk

3. The movie was so sad that it made Tina and Amy cry.这部电影是如此悲伤以至于蒂娜和艾米都哭了。

² so …that …意为“如此……以至……”，that后面引导的是一个结果状语从句。

There were so many people in the street watching the fire that firefighters could not get close to the building.

The boy ran so fast that I couldn't catch him.

He was so angry that he couldn't say a word.

It’s so good a chance that I can’t miss it.

² so …that …还可以变形为such …that …, 因此上面句子可以改写成It’s such a good chance that I can’t miss it.

² so that引导目的状语从句时，表示“以便；为了”，从句中常使用can /could /may /might /will /would /should等情态动词或助动词。如：

The little boy saved every coin so that he could buy his mother a present on mother’s day.



1) She bought a digital camera online ______she would save a lot of time.

A. so that           B. as soon as           C. no matter         D. such that  

2) Deaf people can't _______,but they can learn how to move their mouths_______ they can speak.

A listen ,so          B hear, so             C listen, so that       D hear, so that

3) The camera is _______expensive________ I can't afford it.

A. so, that           B. such, that           C. so, as to           D. enough, that

4) Miss Gao asked a question, but it was________ that nobody could answer it.

A. very difficult       B. too difficult         C. difficult enough    D. so difficult

5) I think the shoes are ______ small ______ me ______ wear.

A. too; for; to         B.too; to; to           C. for; to; too         D. for; to; to

6) My brother loves football. He is _______tired _______enjoy the football matches.

A. so; that      B. too; to        C. so; never     D. never too; to

7) He is_______ to reach the apples on the tree .

A. tall much     B. tall enough    C. enough tall    D. too tall

8) Sandy is_______ to become our monitor.

A. energetic enough    B. enough energeticC. elegant enough     D. enough elegant

4. The more I got to know Julie, the more I have realized that we have a lot in common. 我越了解朱莉，就越发认识到我们俩有很多相同之处。

² "the more..., the more..."句型常表示"越……就越……"。这个句式前后使用的都是比较级，两者之间有一定的因果关系，一般结构是the+ 比较级，the + 比较级，若主句的谓语动词用一般将来时,从句的谓语动词要用一般现在时表示将来。

The harder you work, the greater progress you will make.

The more he gets, the more he wants.

The more she learns, the more she wants to learn.

² get to know 表示“到达了解的程度”，如：You will like her once you get to know her.



1) 我们种的树越多，环境就越好。

___________ trees we plant,____________________________.

2) 你学习越努力，取得的成绩就越好。

________________ you study,__________________________.

5. So we have been spending more time together lately.所以我们最近一起度过的时间就更多了。

² have been spending 是现在完成进行时，表示从过去某时开始一直持续到现在并且还将持续下去的动作，例：

I have been living in Hawaii for ten years.

I have been telling you not to make trouble.

² lately 副词，“最近、近来”，相当于recently。如：What have you been doing lately?

² Late, later, latest, lately辨析：

late是形容词、副词。意为“晚的”。如：He is always late.   He comes late.

latest是late的最高级，最晚的，最新的。如：This is the latest news

later是late的比较级，较晚的，更迟的；也可以作为副词，后来，稍后，一会。

如：I get up at 10, he is later than me, at 11!

  Try again later 稍后再打



1) -- I’m sure Andrew will win the first prize in the final.    --I think so. He ________ for it for months.

A. is preparing        B. was preparing      C. had been preparing   D. has been preparing

2) Danny _________ hard for long to realize his dream and now he is popular.

A. works             B. is working        C. has worked         D. had worked

3) --I have got a headache. --No wonder. You_________ in front of that computer too long.

    A. work              B. are working       C. have been working    D. worked

4) My TV is out of order. Can you tell me what is the________ news about Iraq War？

A. lately             B. latest　　          C. later               D. later



用late，lately，later，latest，latter填空

1) I haven't heard of him ________. What's happened?

2) That happened in the ________ 1870s.

3) He returned three days ________ than expected.

4) Which do you prefer, the former or the ________?

5) Here is the ________ news from the front.

6. Neither medicine nor rest can help him. 药物和休息都帮不了他。

² neither...nor...表示"既不……也不……"。其含义是否定的，可连接任意两个并列的成份。例如：

She likes neither butter nor cheese.（连接名词） 她既不喜欢黄油也不喜欢乳酪。

She is neither clever nor hardworking. （连接形容词）她既不聪明， 又不勤奋。

² 此句中neither...nor...连接两个宾语。当neither...nor...连接两个主语时，也应遵循"就近原则"。例如：

Neither he nor she is at home today. （连接代词）今天他和她都不在家。

² 若将neither...nor...句型变为肯定句，只需把neither...nor...改为both...and...即可，同时谓语动词必须用复数形式。



1) --What would you like, tea or coffee?  --_______. I don’t like them at all.

A. Both              B. Either             C. Neither           D. No

2) --Can I come this evening or tomorrow morning?  --______ is OK. I'm free today and tomorrow.   

A. Either             B. Neither            C. Both             D. None  

3) Neither Mary nor the twins ______ from Australia.

    A. is                B. comes             C. was              D. come

7. Although I have a lot of power, it doesn’t make me happy. 尽管我有很大的权利，这并不能使我开心。

² power在这里是“权利”的意思，是不可数名词，后面接动词不定式作宾语。

A policeman has the power to arrest criminals.

² power: 基本意思是“力，力量”，指人或国家甚至是某个机构的权力、势力或影响力。

strength: 说人时，指“体力，力气”；说物时，指“强度”。也可指“强项，长处”。

force: 主要指强制力量，暴力，武力等。

energy: 主要指人的精力。



练习：用force，power，energy，strength填空

1) Not that I don’t want to help you，but that it’s beyond my _______to do so.

2) She has always been encouraged to swim to build up the __________of her muscles.

3) If you do not open the door，I am authorized to enter by use of _______.

4) Young people usually have more  _______than the old.



5) --You are always full of _____. Can you tell me the secret?   --Taking plenty of exercise every day.

     A. power           B. strength           C. force             D. energy  



8. He felt like there was a heavy weight on his shoulders as he walked home alone. 独自走在回家的路上，他感觉有千万金重担压在他的双肩上。

² Weight的基本含义是“重量、分量”，不可数名词，常见搭配有lose weight（减肥），put on weight (增肥)，上面句子weight表示“负担”。

He has put on weight since I last saw him.  

His opinion doesn't carry much weight..

² weigh 动词，表示“有……重”，

I weigh less than I used to.

选择weigh, weight 填空

1) It is 46 meters high and ___________ 229 tons.

2) The car___________  about two tons.

3) How does the bag ___________?

4) what is the bag's ___________ ?

5) The loss of the money has been a ___________on my mind.  

9. But whatever it was, don’t be too hard on yourself. 但是不管发生了什么事，不要对自己太苛刻了。

² be hard on sb 表示严厉对待某人，相当于be strict with sb. hard 在这里是形容词，意为“苛刻的，硬心肠的”。

She was very hard on me.

1) 这位老教师对待学生一贯很严厉。

The old teacher ________________________________.

2) 我知道他是做错了事，但是不用对他太严厉。

I know he_____________________, but __________________________.

10. The next day, Peter went to soccer practice with courage rather than fear in his heart.第二天彼得去参加足球训练，心中怀着的是勇气而不是恐惧。

² rather than用法集锦

rather than用作连词，连接两个平行结构。既可以表示主观愿望上的决择，“与其…宁可…”，也可以表示客观程度上的差异，“与其说是…不如说是…”。

例如：

(1)接代词

I, rather than you, should do the work. 该做这工作的是我，而不是你。

She rather than I is going there. 是她而不是我讲去那里.

(2)接名词

John ought to go rather than Jean.约翰比琴更应该去。

I think I'll have a cold drink rather than coffee. 我想我该要一杯冷饮，而不要咖啡。

(3)接形容词

These shoes are comfortable rather than for your friend. 这鞋不好看可是舒服。

You are doing this for yourself rather than for your friend. 你不是为你朋友，而是为你自己做这种事。

(4)接介词短语   

I'd prefer to go in August rather than in July.我愿8月去不愿7月去。

He is at school rather than at home .他是在学校而不是在家。

（5）接动名词

He always prefer starting early ,rather than leaving everything to the last minute, 他总是愿意早开始而不愿意把所有事情都留到最后才做。

She likes swimming rather than playing tennis .她喜欢游泳而不喜欢打网球。

（6）接过去分词

She insisted on having the room papered rather than painted. 她坚持要用纸裱糊房间，而不是把房间粉刷一下。

I’d like to be taken there rather than left here. 我宁愿被带往那儿而不愿意被留下来。

（7）接不定式

I decided to write rather than telephone.我决定写信而不是打电话。

They prefer to die fighting rather than live in enslavement. 他们宁可战死，也不肯活着受奴役。

（8）接谓语动词

He told a lie rather than get his friend into trouble. 他宁愿说谎也不愿连累朋友。

He ran rather than walked.他跑步而不是步行。

【温馨提示】rather than后接动词原形表示主观抉择，接一个动词的过去式则表示客观差异。

（9）接从句

It was what he meant rather than what he said. 那是指他话中的意思，而不是他所说的话。

It was what he had eaten rather than what he had drunk that made him ill.使他得病的不是他喝的东西，而是他吃的东西。

[用法拓展1]

prefer to do ... rather than do ...    宁可做……而不愿意做   

would rather do sth. than do ... 宁可做……而不愿意做

Prefer doing to doing  宁可做……而不愿意做  

例如：I prefer to get up early rather than go to school without breakfast.我宁可早起也不愿意不吃饭上学.

      I would die rather than disgrace myself.我宁死不屈.

      He would rather paint the wall on his own than have the painter do it. 他宁愿自己刷这墙也不愿意请油漆工刷.

[用法拓展2] rather than用作介词 ，和as well as及in stead of一样，rather than后面跟一个和母句中的动词形式并不匹配的ing分词分句时，它是介词，而不是准并列连词：



1) He preferred______ there rather than ______for the bus here.

A. walk, to wait       B. walking, waiting     C. to walk ,to wait    D. to walk. wait

2) Rather than______ on a crowded bus ,he always prefers ______ bicycle.  

    A. ride, ride          B. riding, ride          C. ride, to ride       D. to ride, riding

3) I prefer _____to milk.  

A. some milk          B. yogurt            C. apples             D. bread

4) I prefer ______ at home rather than ______this boring film .

A. staying; watch      B. stay ;watching      C. to stay ;to watch     D. stay ;to watch

5) I'd rather vegetables_______ than _______ meat for lunch.

A. eat; eating B. having; have C. have; eating D. have; have

6) --How about having a walk after supper?  --I'm very tired. I'd rather _______at home.

A. to stay B. stay C. stayed D. staying,



7) Bill preferred________ (play) soccer rather than swim.

8) He preferred renting a car to _______(have)one of his own.

9) She preferred _________(make) clothes rather than buy in the shops.

10) Some people prefer__________ (sell) the old house (buy) a new one.

三 、Grammar

Make

make用作使役动词表示 “使；使成为” 时，可跟复合结构，即“make+宾语+宾语补足语”，其中的宾语补足语可以是不带to的不定式、过去分词、形容词或名词。现将make的复合宾语结构小结如下：

一、“make＋宾语＋n.” 意为“使、让某人 / 某物(成为)……”。如：

We made him captain of our football team. 我们推选他作我们足球队队长。

We made him our monitor. 我们选他当班长。

二、“make＋宾语＋adj.” 意为 “使某人 / 某事(变得)……”。如：

The news that our team had won made us very happy. 我们队赢了的消息使我们大家非常高兴。

We must make the rivers clean. 我们必须净化河水。

友情提示：当宾语是不定式短语或从句时，多用it作形式宾语。如：

I made it a condition that everybody must be on time. 我提出一个条件，人人都要准时。

The heavy rain made it impossible for us to go out. 大雨使得我们无法出去。

三、“make＋宾语＋do sth.（不带to的不定式）”意为 “使某人做某事”。如:

What makes the grass grow? 什么东西使得草生长？

Our teacher makes us feel more confident. 老师使得我们感到更自信了。

友情提示：在被动语态中，此类结构中省略的动词不定式 to 要还原。如：

The boy was made to work twelve hours a day. 这个男孩被迫每天干十二个小时的活。

Every day I am made to have an egg and some milk. 我每天不得不吃一个鸡蛋，喝一些牛奶。

相关链接：have, make, let等使役动词和see, hear, listen to, look at, watch, notice, observe 等感官动词都可接不带to的不定式作宾补。help后可带to,也可不带to。如：

Let him do whatever he wishes to do. 他想干什么就让他干吧。

Did you see him go out? 你看见他出去了吗？

I often help my mother (to) do some housework. 我经常帮助妈妈做些家务。

四、“make＋宾语＋Ｖ-ed（过去分词作宾补）”这个结构指宾语接受后面的那个动作，表示被动的意思，意为 “使某人 / 某事被……”。如：

The strange noise made us frightened. 奇怪的声音使我们感到恐惧。

The good news made us excited. 这个好消息使我们兴奋。

友情提示：通常情况下，make后的宾语是反身代词时，作宾补的动词要用过去分词，即：make oneself＋V-ed （heard, known, understood）。如：

He couldn't make himself heard above the noise of the traffic. 在交通嘈杂声中他无法使自己声音提高让别人听到。

五、“make+宾语+V-ing（现在分词）”这一结构表示的意思是“使某人 / 某事一直在……”。现在分词与宾语之间存在着逻辑上的主谓关系。如：

  He makes the boy standing all the time. 他让那个男孩一直站着。

四 、Consolidation  

词组翻译

1. 和某人打架_______________________

2. 团队协作_______________________

3. 开除某人_______________________

4. 齐心协力_______________________

5. 接近于_______________________

6. 互相支持_______________________

7. 与某人沟通_______________________

8. 吸取教训_______________________

9. 意见一致_______________________

10. 使某人宽慰的是_______________________

单词拼写

1. We are not born with __________ (勇气)，but neither are we born with fear.

2. It sounds as if he has the __________ (分量) of the world on him.

3. You said you would come to our party, please do not __________ (使失望)us.

4. My __________ (过失) caused the team to lose the game.

5. He has one __________(肩膀) a little higher than the other one.

6. We will never stop until we reach our __________ (目标).

7. He greeted me with a__________ (点头).

8. The __________ (教练) of our team is a foreigner.

9. The teacher’s words gave some __________ (轻松) to his students.

10. They have been arguing for hours without reaching any __________ (一致).

单项选择

1. Now many people say that they_______ sending e-mails_______ letters.

A. prefer to; to write B. prefer; to writeC. prefer; to writing D. prefer to; to writing

2. I prefer buying her some presents _______ her some money.

A. give B. to give C. to giving D. than give

3. Paul doesn’t have to be made______ .He always works hard．

A. learn             B. to learn               C. learned              D. learning

4. I have three sisters, ___________ of them lives in Wuxi. They all live in Shanghai.

A. None B. No one C. Not all D. Neither

5. Tom got along well __________ all his neighbours __________ the man who lived next door.

A. with; besides B. in; beside C. with; except D. on; except

6. We can't wait any longer. We decide to go to the theater __________ him.

A. with B. except C. without D. instead

7. My teachers are kind__________ us. They are also strict__________ us.

A. with; with B. to; in C. to; with D. in; to

8. He doesn't know__________ the broken computer.

A. how to do with  B. how can they deal with

C. how to deal with D. what to deal with

9. __________a list __________all the work makes me more organized.

A. MakeB. MakingC. MakesD. Made

10. __________ or swimming __________us healthy.

A. To run; make  B. Running; makeC. To run; makes  D. Running; makes

11. Please stop __________a rest if you feel tired.

A. to have B. having C. have D. has

12. Can you hear someone __________in the next door.?

A. singing B. sing C. sings D. to Sing

13. The teacher told her students__________ in public.

A. didn't shout B. not to shout C. not shout D. to not shout

14. __________ ahead is very important for your study,

A. Plan B. Plans C. Planning D. Planned

15. His dream is __________a great pop star.

A. to being B. becomes C. to become D. be

16. In the past he often made his brother ,__________ but now he is often made__________ by his brother.

A. cry; cryB. to cry; to cry C. to cry; cry D. cry; to cry

17. I would rather __________than__________ with him.

A. to be laughed at; to be quarreled B. be laughed at; quarrel

C. to laugh at; to quarrel D. laugh at; quarrel

18. . I find __________difficult to finish the work on time. We only have three hours left.

A. its B. this C. that D. it

19. You are not good at English, but you can't__________

A. give it in B. give in it C. give it up D. give up it

20. My parents __________ walking home from work to taking a bus. They think it is good for their health.

A. prefer B. love C. enjoy D. like

五  homework 【布置作业】

On a trip to California, my family stopped for lunch. As we walked towards the entrance to the restaurant, a man, with a messy beard and ___1___ hair, jumped up from a bench outside the restaurant and opened the door for us. Paying no attention to his ___2____, he greeted us in a friendly way.

  Once inside, my daughters said in a low voice, “Mom, he ____3___.” After we ordered our lunch, I explained, telling the the kids to look beyond the dirt. We then watched other ___4___ come into the restaurant but many took no notice of him. Seeing this rudeness truly ___5___me. The day I became a mother, I had determined to set a good example to my children. Yet sometimes being a good example was ____6___, especially when things didn’t go right. After our meal arrived, I realized I had left my car-sick pills in the car, so I went back to the car to get them.

  Just then, the “doorman”was opening the door for a couple. They ___7___ him without even noticing his presence. Letting them in first, I said a loud “thank you” to ___8___ as I went out.

  When I returned, we talked a bit. He said he was not allowed inside ___9___ he bought food. I went back and asked our waitress to ___10___ one soup and sandwich. The kids looked puzzed as they had already eaten. But when I told them his story and said the ___11___ was for the “doorman”, they smiled. When it was time to continue our ___12___, I found the “doorman” enjoying his meal. Upon seeing me, he stood up and thanked me heartily with tears in his eyes.

  Back in the car, I fell into deep thought. While we can’t choose many things in life, we can choose __13___ to show gratitude. I said thanks to a man who had __14___held open a door for me, and also said thanks for that opportunity to teach my children by ___15____.

(  )1.A.dirty             B. clean             C. pretty             D. shiny

(  )2.A.appearance        B. happiness         C. illness             D. carelessness

(  )3.A.smokes           B. shouts            C. smells             D. smiles

(  )4.A.travelers          B. visitors           C. passengers          D. customers

(  )5.A.taught            B. upset             C. troubled            D. surprised

(  )6.A.tiring             B. amazing          C. difficult            D. successful

(  )7.A.waited for         B. rushed past        C. stopped by         D. returned to

(  )8.A.him              B. them             C. myself             D. themselves

(  )9.A.before            B. since             C. though             D. unless

(  )10.A.buy             B. add              C. show              D. borrow

(  )11.A.order            B. money            C. note              D. service

(  )12.A.meal             B. talk              C. trip               D. story

(  )13.A.where            B. when             C. how             D. why

(  )14.A.actually           B. truly             C. really            D. simply

(  )15.A.journey          B. example           C. lesson            D. experience



You know that eating a suitable diet and getting plenty of exercise help make your body healthy and strong. But did you know that there are ways to make your brain healthier and smarter?

Studies show that when the brains is forced to do something new, it creates new neural (神经元) pathways. The more pathways you have, the faster you can think and the better memory you will have. Wonderful steps towards a smarter brain are as follows:

Choose proper TV programs

Watching an average TV show needs very little brain power and brings the same result as giving no care to physical exercise. Your brain will become weak just as your muscles do,if you watch TV, choose something educational and full of information.

Travel

Traveling to a new country forces you to see and do things in a new way, making your brains more active.

Learning a new language

A new language learner usually uses different learning methods. Learning a language sharpens your brain and helps you prevent memory problems in later years.

Master a new subject

Each week, choose an animal, a bird or a fish, and read everything you can about it. Go on learning unitl you become an expert on the subject.

Use your non-dominant hand

If you are right-handed,use your left hand for everyday activities, or use your right hand if you are left-handed. Doing familiar things in a new way will cause your brain to create new neural networks.

Read often

As you read, take the time to look up people or places that aren’t familiar. Reading can enlarge your vocabulary if you search for words and expressions that you don’t know.

Calculate while you shop

As you put things in your shopping bag, total everything in your head. See how close you get to the actual total.

Play video games

Studies have found that some video games force you to use critical decision-making skills and can even improve students’ math grades.

So get into the habit of challenging your brain, and make yourself smarter!

(  )1.The passage can most probably be found in a _____book.

    A. history            B. travel             C. science           D. story

(  )2.The underlined word “it” in the second paragraph refers to _________.

    A. the brain          B. the study           C. the neural pathway    D. something new

(  )3.According to the passage, there are _____ ways to make your brain smarter besides traveling and reading often.

    A. five              B. six                 C. eight     D. ten

(  )4.While you are reading, you should _______.

    A. read as loudly as possible                  B. look up something unfamiliar

    C. read as quickly as you can                 D. read from the beginning to the end

(  )5.Which of the following statements is TRUE according to the passage?

A. Playing video games is bad for your study and your health.

B. Using calculators a lot can make you smarter when you are a child.

C. Watching something educational on TV needs very little brain power.

D. Writing with the right hand can make the left-handed smarter.





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Losing friends is about as easy as making friends if you don’t know how to deal with anger and conflict .Conflict is part if everyone’s __66____. It will show up at school, at work and at home .It’s Ok to feel angry, annoyed or sad. These feelings are __67____,but different people deal with ___68______in different ways .Some people shout, call people names ,or even hit the person who has __69____them .Others do their best to keep away from disagreements but very few deal with conflict ___70________.

   Dealing with conflict is a step by step progress. _____71______you start discussing the problem ,calm down ,count to 10 and imagine a relaxing ___72______.Then ,say what is really bothering you ,but watch how you express yourself .Don’t complain. Share ___73___you feel by using “I “ For example ,don’t say “You are always ordering me to do this or to do that ,”but “I feel sad___74__you don’t pay attention to what I think .

  You want people to ____75_____your opinion so make sure you practice what you want to say .Listen carefully to the other person and accept that he or she might see the problem in a different way .Be open minded and willing to say sorry.